Love Story: After Years of Dating, He Impregnated another Girl and Left Me Hanging

"Sometimes before you judge people, find out why they do what they do. Learn the impact of what they do on their growth as a person, hence it's not a sin before God and Man. Maybe they are trying to survive just like you"
Yes, most people go through rough times in this life and it makes me think that our loved ones has a part to play on it. Here is a story of a young lady, who needs advice before she do the unthinkable.

Her Story!
"Let's go back to the way it was, the way we were, no I think we need progress, I think we shouldn't care like the way we used to. What we had was in the past, though it felt so good but if we cling to it we could be stuck for life. You were all i wanted, you were all i needed but you turned out to be the best thing i never had" These were exactly Kelvin's words before i accepted him back


Hi everyone, I really need your sincere advice on this. 
I'm in my early 30s, married with a child. Here is my story

In 2009 while I was in the university I met a wonderful man (Kelvin) via Facebook. We started dating, he is a learned and knowledgeable person and that was what made me to fall deeply in love with him. He speaks wisdom every time he open his mouth to talk. He was working in a private firm in Abuja and I was a student in Port-Harcourt though we are from the same state. After lectures on Fridays I will take the night bus to Abuja. 

The relationship continued for three years. One day Kelvin called and said he's in need of 200k,  I immediately sent 120k which was meant for my house rent. That weekend I saw pictures of his traditional marriage on Facebook. I was so heart broken,  I felt used. I called and he told said "its not a good time to talk" and hung the phone on me. I cried sha, yes i did, because he was the love of my life.  
One month later he called and said I should not worry that he will refund my money soon. Early 2012,  after my graduation Kelvin called and apologized to me,  that he is no more with his wife bla bla bla. I made enquirers and it was true. We started another journey of love. Don't judge me, i was so in love with him. This time I was serving and he got another job that took him to Zaria. Later that year, he got a girl pregnant according to him, it was just one night stand. That made us to fall apart completely. This time, i was serious! The girl died immediately after giving birth to the baby. Kelvin took the child because the girl was an orphan. 

I moved on with my life,  got married. Last year December, Kelvin called and I refused to take his call. He called my sister and got my address. Later I got a package from him with a lengthy letter, original copy of his landed properties. In his letter,  he stated that he has made me next of kin, his ATM cards and pin and to take care of his daughter and business. He also stated that he has a terminal disease and has few days left to live. 

Since I got this letter,  my husband has changed, he said I cannot accept his offer. So last week I went to Zaria to see Kelvin, on getting there I was told he has passed. I couldn't control the tears. I asked about his daughter and I was taken to her. Immediately she saw me,  she ran to me and said "my daddy told me that you are my new mummy". I asked her how did you know that  I'm your new mummy? She ran inside and brought out a picture of me that her daddy gave it to her.

Oh people as I write this she is with my sister pending when I will settle with my husband. My husband said if I accept this offer that we are going to dissolve our marriage. 

What should I do?  Help a Sister.

Note: Kelvin isn't his real name, we just used it to differentiate the two men. She seriously need your advice on what to do. Send in your comments and also subscribe to us for more of the love stories.